Although many men are concerned about the size of their penis, most of them have never ever checked out their penis size. They have no clue what the average size of penis should be. Going back into history, it is interesting to note that there have been not one but several definitions of a perfect sized penis.

Erotic paintings and other ancient art forms reveal huge penises, because in those times a huge size was associated with high sexual power. This thinking has been handed down the generations and even today, a larger penis is considered to be better in every way.

The often asked question is "does size matter?" The problem is that nobody knows for sure if it does. Men are generally obsessed with a huge penis just as women are with size of their breasts. Men look around everywhere possible in an attempt to find ways and means of enlarging size of their penis.

This is the reason penis enlargement industry is thriving. The manufacturers sell everything from pills, creams, patches, traction devices that are bought by men like there is no tomorrow. There are many that look at surgery as an alternative too.

A lot of research has been done to find out the perfect penis size and studies reveal that a penis with 4.7-5.2 inches in girth and 5.5-6.4 inches in length when erect is the average. All those 12" penises shown in porn films and advertisements are extreme and are used to lure people to the products or movies.

Many people have the wrong notion that size of the penis is affected by the person's height or feet, hands and nose size. That is not true as there is no relation whatsoever.

Many women do understand that size does not really matter when it comes to sexual gratification. Yes, they also say that girth of the penis may make a difference but certainly not the length. This is because of the G-spot that gives women immense pleasure when a penis touches it. This G-spot is said to be located inside the vagina upper wall.

All said and done, it is the personal preference of the woman herself. While some women may crave for big penises, not all do. In a survey, a majority of women revealed that they prefer a bigger penis to a longer one. This is because a meatier penis can touch the vaginal walls and provide them the pleasure they seek during intercourse.

Women also said that although, it is the penis that is the main organ of lovemaking; the passion of the man, the romance and the caring is what heightens their pleasure more than anything else.

Women look for everything and not just size of a man's penis. They seek intimacy, emotional belonging and love among other things. This understanding should give men the much needed confidence, especially men who think their penis is not on par with other men.

Try and make your woman feel all tingly with flowers, perfumes, massages, exotic baths etc. You will find that in spite of having a smaller penis, lovemaking will reach heights you could never have imagined, satisfying the woman to her very being.

No penis is too small to make love. Making love is not done with the penis alone; it is a combination of everything else that can provide immense pleasure to the woman and the man himself.